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来自内心的幸福

2020-08-15 00:22:33
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最近这些年幸福似乎成了一个非常时髦的话题,常常出现在电视节目,社会探讨以及大学课堂里。而随着人们对幸福问题有所觉醒,似乎它也越来越成为我们选择工作,生活乃至周遭环境的一个重要指标,毫无疑问,人人都渴望幸福的生活,可是到底什么是幸福呢?有人觉得富甲一方是幸福,可以有人觉得安居乐业才是幸福,有人觉得那些独步云端的成功者一定最幸福,这也有人觉得,不论成或败能做自己喜欢的事情就是最大的幸福,其实幸福还可以分为表面的幸福和实质的幸福。表面的幸福指的是别人觉得你拥有很多好东西,别人觉得你应该特别幸福而实质的幸福则是指你真正发自内心感到心满意足。很多时候,这两个层面不一定是一致的,有的人看起来光鲜亮丽,内心确实充满了愁云惨雾。而有的人看似平平常常,却由内而外散发着暖暖的阳光,满满的知足。从今天这堂课开始,我们将来探讨一下幸福这个热门而深邃的话题。

今天的课就跟大家来谈谈幸福有哪些不同的评价标准,以及为什么真正的幸福?究其实质还是在于自我的评价和自我的定义。这问题是什么时候开始进入我们的视野?引起我们的注意的呢?那就是有一年啊出来一个节目,在路上采访节目这位大叔,你幸福吗?所以当时这个幸福啊还是一个非常陌生的感觉,谁都知道这个词?但是很多时候我们的意识当中没有足够的空间留给这样一个词的存在,所以当时要被问到的人大多数都是云里雾里一脸茫然,不知何所谓啊,你幸福吗?但是呢,当时的这个节目就开启了我们国人对于幸福问题的一种关注,从此以后你会发现我们经常就问问谁你幸福吗?幸福不幸福其实是一个人内心很深的一种感受。幸福问题归根到底其实是个私人问题。所以你幸福吗?这个问题啊,如果不是两个人关系特别好好到可以敞开心扉问这个问题,你幸福吗这个问题往往有点不怀好意的,我都跟你不太熟,对吧?

我觉得我们国人很多时候就很喜欢拿这个手电筒照别人的,你说我不道德啊你道德了?哎,你说我过得比你过得好的,所以你会发现如果两个人不是关系好到那种可以敞开心扉,还可以开诚布公诚相对,一般情况下,你幸福吗?这个问题不是很合适的,因为她实在是很私人。而且坦白讲,一般情况下,你幸福吗?这个问题是个无效问题,为什么呢?我问你,你幸福吗?你会告诉我真实答案了?然后呢我说你幸福吗?我不太幸福,我跟你说呀,这个那个今天我碰到那个我碰到那个事儿,你一般情况这是个无效问题,当我说你幸福吗?我们很少可能得到一个非常真实的答案的。而且某种程度上,你幸福吗?这个问题其实问的人,我觉得有点笨,有点迂腐的,何必多次问,一个人真的幸福的时候,他的眼睛里鼻孔里,耳朵里。笑面如花。他的这种幸福感是流淌出来的,是藏不住的,一个人真的幸福的时候,如果你真的用心她幸福不幸福你一目了然。

个人有个人不同的渴望,个人有个人对幸福的不同的理解,因为个人的幸福观不同,所以往往带来的幸福感觉也不同。所以很多时候这个标准呢,是无法统一的,幸福没有固定格式的。书里说,幸福的人总是相似的,不幸的人却是各有各的不幸,此言差异,其实幸福也没有固定格式。也没有哪一种生活状态,就是适合所有人的,就是绝对幸福的。俗话说青菜萝卜各有所爱,我们每个人心目中理想的幸福生活往往有着各自独特的期待和定义。你的幸福,或许是一场说走就走的世界旅行,而她的幸福或许只是坐在自家的阳台上浇浇水,养养花,晒晒太阳。你的幸福,或许是传奇般的人生无可比拟的辉煌,他想要的幸福或许只是生活无风无浪,岁月如常。所以幸福不幸福,归根到底不在于他人的评价,而是我们每个人扪心自问的结果。幸福不幸福,归根到底如人饮水,冷暖自知。或许我们当中有些人在追求幸福的道路上之所以会产生迷茫,就是因为混淆了幸福的这两个评价系统错把他人眼中的成功与优秀当成了自己的幸福目标。却在追求这个幸福目标的过程中,不知不觉丢失了很多亲情,友爱,真诚,也丢失了自己真正发自内心的满满的幸福感。接下来的课程中,我们将进一步来探讨一下幸福还有哪些奥秘。

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Everybody is good, I am peaceful teacher of affection net clump, our network address is Www.qinggan.com welcomes to listen to life to differ as expected. Recently these year became a very modern topic happily it seems that, often appear in the TV program, the society is discussed and in university classroom. And be opposite as people happy problem somewhat arousal, it seems that it also more and more become us to choose the job, the life and even week meet with a of the environment main index, without doubt, everybody yearns for happy life, can you be after all what is happy? Somebody feels rich to armour one party is happy, can somebody feels to live and work in peace and contentment just is happy, somebody feels those alone the succeed person of pace high in the clouds is certain the happiest, this also somebody feels, be become no matter or defeating the business that can do oneself to like is the biggest happiness, actually happiness still can divide the happiness of the happiness that is the surface and essence. What exterior happiness points to is others feels you have a lot of good things, others feels you should be special happy and substantial happiness is to show you are sent truly feel be perfectly satisfied from the heart. A lot of moment, these two levels are not consistent certainly, some people look bright bright beautiful, the heart was full of anxious cloud miserable mist really. And some people look be like flatly often, however by inside and outside sending out warm warm sunshine, full content with one's lot. From today this class begins, we discuss happiness in the future this popular and abstruse topic.

Today's class talks about happiness to have the evaluation level that what differ with everybody, and why true happiness? Investigate its essence or the definition that depend on the evaluation of ego and ego. The eye shot that when begins to enter us is this problem? Of the attention that causes us? That has a year namely ah come out a program, the item is covered on the road this uncle, are you happy? So at that time this happiness ah still be a very new sense, who knows this word? But the existence that a lot of moment leave a such words without enough space among our consciousness, the person great majority that should be asked about at that time so is Yun Li the one face in mist is spellbound, do not know why alleged ah, are you happy? But, this program at that time with respect to open a kind of our compatriots attention to happy problem, can you discover evermore who do we often ask you are happy? Happiness is one individual heart is experienced one kind very deep actually. Happy problem in the final analysis is a personal question actually. Are you so happy? This problem, if not be two people the relationship is special arrive well can open his mind ask this question, you are happy this problem often has a place cankered, I follow you not quite ripe, right?

I feel our compatriots is very much moment likes to take this flashlight to illuminate others very much, do you say I am immoral ah your morality? Hey, you say I pass to compare your live well, if two people are not be on speaking terms arrives,so you can discover the sort of can open his mind, OK still frank and sincere sincere opposite, usually, are you happy? This problem is not very appropriate, because she is very private really. And tell candidly, usually, are you happy? This problem is an invalid problem, why? I ask you, are you happy? Can you tell me actual result? Next do I say you are happy? I am not quite happy, I say with you, this I come up against that me to come up against that thing that today, you are general circumstance this is an invalid problem, say when me you are happy? We may get a very actual result rarely. And go up somehow, are you happy? The person that this question asks actually, I feel a bit stupid, a bit pedantry, ask for many times why, When a person is happy really, in the nostril in his eye, in ear. If spend,laugh at a face. This kind of his happy feeling is to flow drip come out, do not hide, when a person is happy really, if you use a heart really she is happy your be clear at a glance.

The individual has the individual's different longing, the individual has an individual to be opposite happy different understanding, because happy view of the individual is different, the happy sense that often brings so is different also. So a lot of moment this standard, cannot unite, did not secure a format happily. Say in the book, happy person always is similar, sad person is the misfortune that has each each however, this character difference, also did not secure a format happily actually. Also do not have which kind of life condition, suit everybody namely, be absolutely happiness. Common saying says green vegetables turnip loves somewhat each, the good happy life in memory often is having our everybody respective and distinctive expectation and definition. Your happiness, it is a world trip that says to go probably, and irrigate on her balcony that just sits happily in oneself probably water, raise raise a flower, bask. Your happiness, it is the life like legend probably incomparable brilliant, the happiness that he wants is life calm does not have billow only probably, years as usual. So happy, in the final analysis does not depend on the evaluation of other, however the result that our everybody examines his conscience. Happy, in the final analysis waters like the person, changes in temperature knows oneself. Can arise on the way that some people are seeking happiness among us probably confused, because,be promiscuous system of happy these two evaluations is complex a success in other eye and outstanding regarded as oneself happy target. In the course that pursueing this happy objective however, lost a lot of close favour insensibly, friendly affection, genuine, also lost oneself to send the full happy feeling from the heart truly. Next in course, we will discuss happiness to still have what mystery further.

good this period the program arrives here, everybody can pay close attention to the public order that issues us to redeem love, below period program good-bye.

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恏叻這期節目就箌這裏叻,夶鎵鈳鉯關紸丅莪們啲公眾號挽囙愛情,丅期節目洅見。